WHAT A WOMAN WANTS AND IS AFRAID TO ASK HER GUY

WHAT A WOMAN WANTS AND IS AFRAID TO ASK HER GUY

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GUYS: So you think you know, don’t you? Maybe, you missed one or two?

I decided to compile a list. Feel free to print it off and check it whenever you do one.

WOMEN: This list may not be completely to your liking and I may have forgotten something so you need to comment on this blog.

AND WHAT IF I’M WRONG? LOL….ME??? Anastasia Amor has conducted extensive research …she knows, believe me. (She also has multiple personalities)

Of course, it is your right, GUYS, to stay uninformed and blissfully happy with yourself…but definitely, ill-advised.


THE LIST: I decided to approach this as a karate student. There are 3 components.

THE SPIRIT:
#Make her feel good about herself. Tell her you like her hair, lips, eyes, sense of humour and her mind.
Other body parts are also good—so what if her butt isn’t perfect but you like it. I think if it’s a body part never previously valued, even better. I was extremely flattered when my favourite guy said he thought my feet were delicate.

#Tell her she looks fantastic when she takes time to fix herself up.

#Remind her she’s special to you (more special than anyone else).

#Kiss her frequently, with feeling. Both sexes like kissing. It’s something we should do away from the bedroom, too. Kissing goes along with holding hands. It’s a romantic connection.

#A romantic dinner….a must.


THE MIND:

#Communicate and listen. Initiate the conversation. Take a few minutes to talk to her about something that she likes (make sure she likes this topic...I mean really).

#Invite her out for a: movie, theatre, comedy show, concert, game…as long as she enjoys it. (This is not your time…make it hers…hopefully you both like it) Try to do this often. Another thing…don’t wait for her to always make plans…(Women get sick of arranging things)


THE BODY
#Massage…a gentle sensitive massage that relaxes her. Warm oils and sensitive light fingers are imperative. The purpose is not to compete with a registered massage therapist. Those dudes leave sore muscles sometimes sorer than when the massage starts.
No, this is to help her…you want her to surprise her with your soft, sensuous hands. You are worshipping her with this massage.

#Make sure you’re clean off with a scent she likes…This does not mean spraying your package with cologne. You are a man, not an Armani bottle. One of my female friends said she doesn’t mind sweat…but that all depends on the whether the skin was initially clean. Old sweat is nasty.

#If you have a snoring problem…do something about or remove yourself from her bed, unless of course, she doesn’t mind or snores just as loud.

#I get the impression that men are more likely to get pleasure out of sex than women. Men often tease women with their tongues or finger but do they make sure she has that ultimate experience? (Did you see how I cleverly avoided something that might possibly offend..?)
You wouldn’t believe how many magazine articles are about how to please the guy…. Well, I think women get a raw deal. Sure, they’re supposed to subtely tell the guy, “I like it over there, or that feels good.” (because we wouldn’t want to make him feel inadequate) How many times do these magazine articles advise women to say, “No, don’t stop you selfish *******…I want to come… In fact, I want to come every time we have sex!” (That is a reasonable request, guys. Men expect to…why not women? Besides, women have their Big O for 20 seconds…and it’s a very worthwhile, fulfilling experience.)
Of course, if you are really good lover, you could try giving her two—oral and G-spot. (ooops, was that a no-no?…readers…please don’t delete me!!) And don’t limit yourself, if you want to give her more LOL, unless she’s had enough

#Variety and spontaneity--sexually

#Let her sleep sometimes instead of having sex and tell her you would be happy to cuddle.

What do you think?

xxxAnastasia

Mystery author of the steamy ADIE STURM SERIES http://www.anastasiaamor.com/

MEN IN UNIFORMS…SEXY OR NOT?

MEN IN UNIFORMS…SEXY OR NOT?


I’ve got a story for you…
Read my blog and tell me your thoughts.
xxxAnastasia

Cool website of hot mystery author: http://anastasiaamor.com/


MEN IN UNIFORMS…SEXY OR NOT?

The mind boggles…I’m thinking wild crazy stuff now…Which uniforms are sexy? I can only speak for myself. I’m not into team sports…so someone else will have to tell me about that. I do have a story….

Puerto Rico…vacation and two guys sitting at the bar. I was getting hungry…for food…. but the guys weren’t just ordinary guys… one was very hot (9+) and made me forget about food. Now, here’s the thing that got me even more interested. They were wearing uniforms…pristine, white uniforms. And when Paul bought me a drink he told me they were AA pilots….my heart jumped…dinner? Of course, but I had to get changed. We hopped in a taxi and they brought me back to my bed and breakfast place and waited. I got ready and awhile later we went out to dinner. Paul told me he was the head pilot and Gary was a co-pilot (7). A pilot in control of a great, big jet….ah-hh-hhh!!! Paul’s ratings shot up to a ten….Gary wasn’t even a consideration any more.

Well, it was no surprise to Paul how excited I was. Interestingly, he told me when he met a flight attendant, he’d tell her how he was studying to be a lawyer but to women in general, he was the STUDMASTER because he was a PILOT!

WOMEN LOVE COPS…do you?

I’m not sure about that one personally, but there are plenty of stripping cop graphics. Just saw one… myspace friend R, sent it to me. Very stimulating…cop takes it all off…The thing there is…the woman gets to control the COP…THAT IS A TURN ON.
I HAVE A DETECTIVE FRIEND…he was a uniformed cop for years, but now, LADIES…he is without uniform. Can he still be a turn on? Should he be telling women he’s a COP or a DETECTIVE or is it the same?

Hey, but there are female cops, too. WHAT DO MYSPACE MEN THINK ABOUT THEM??????

NURSES AND DOCTORS….mmmm-mmmmm!!!

I went to emergency with a temperature…my examining doctor had smouldering brown eyes and a great bedside manner. I was feverish after his examination. I wasn’t sure if I could have asked for his phone number…not ethical for him but, had I met him outside the hospital…the possibilities were endless…

That’s why they have those Halloween costume uniforms or just uniforms available at the sex shop…EVER GO IN THERE?

No, I won’t tell you…you need to gather up your courage and check out the uniforms…if you can stop yourself from being distracted by the other stuff.

I WANT TO HEAR MORE ABOUT UNIFORMS FROM YOU…GOT A STORY?

xxxAnastasia

Cool website of hot mystery author: http://anastasiaamor.com/